Check you man to see if it still hangs!

Okay you can call me an A-hole, cocky, confident, arrogant, whatever suites you best guys. First of all, stop shooting, physically fighting, whining, and going to jail over these women. What I mean is, we all have insecurities, but to what degree? Example, if your lady is having a merely pleasant conversation with me, it doesn’t mean she is trying to sleep with me, or vice versa for that matter (NOT NECESSARILY ALL THE TIME). Even the worst case scenario she does want to sleep with me or someone else for that matter, there is nothing you can say or do that will stop it from happening. If she wants it to happen, you can cry, put on a sissy belt, whine with the nagging bitchy questions (very much like the females do),"Where you at, who you talking to, why you smiling at him, why you being so nice, what he say, than what you say?" So on and so on. This type of behavior is sick, and against real men protocols. If you are doing what it takes in bed to keep her tamed, then you shouldn’t have any worries. I’m not going to stress myself, her and "Us" off some craziness that’s a figment of my imagination. I can really cut balls off on this but I’ll keep it real simple. You know we take this internet socializing so serious, lol. This is a general outlook of a not only jealous man but human beings period. I really hate jealousy, can’t express it enough, lol, from all angles, basically if you know you’re the mofo as you claim to be in your mind, you shouldn’t have to worry about your woman fleeing the coupe. She gonna play with or without your consent. Don’t jump the gun and push her to play, when she hasn’t done it yet, (Everyone can window shop as long as there are no layaway deals). No personal stabbing just a fact I run by and strongly apply. I am not perfect or insensitive, I get jealous as well, but mine is CONTROLLED, and rarely seen toward a woman. If I’m jealous to a point of frustration, you’ll never know it. It’s handled in a completely different way. If I have described your characteristics and your laughing or not, trust me when I say, you’ll feel better about yourself if you apply, “Check to see if you man still hangs”, I do every day and I like how it feels, lol. Man Up! Fellas!

The Disease of Racism

Race and racism is a touchy subject, no matter who your audience might be. It’s certainly a hot-button issue with me. I have been personally affected by it. My aunt was raped and murdered because of it. I’ve been beaten up because of it. The thing is, instead of blaming blacks and Hispanics, I realized I needed to blame the real, root cause: Racism itself.

If I see/hear/read racist behavior I will comment on it. Forcefully. To ignore is to condone, to be complicit in an evil act. But if you do not believe in evil as a force, then look at racism in the light of cause and effect.

An analogy may help to illustrate:

Think of racism as a disease, an especially tenacious, especially virulent one. Think of it as a sort of leprosy of the soul. To ignore a racist sentiment overheard in a public setting is to ignore a symptom of this dangerous disease. To say ‘that ethnic slur doesn’t affect me, since I am not the target’ is to say ‘that person with untreated leprosy coughing on the communal silverware doesn’t affect me, as I am using chopsticks.’ You know what? You’re right. It doesn’t affect you… yet.

No one is born a racist, just as no one is born a leper. Like leprosy, racism takes a long, long time to inculcate, but once it takes hold is hideously deforming. Like leprosy, racism can with great difficulty be arrested, but the damage done is irreversible.